Sunday, 3 November 2013


Do you want to succeed in life you got to read this (DETERMINATION TO SUCCEED?)

- A dream doesn't become reality through magic; it takes sweat, determination and hard work. - Colin Powell.

- The price of success is hard work, dedication to the job at hand, and the determination that whether we win or lose, we have applied the best of ourselves to the task at hand. - Vince Lombardi. 

- You've done it before and you can do it now. See the positive possibilities. Redirect the substantial energy of your frustration and turn it into positive, effective, unstoppable determination. - Ralph Marston.

We all have dreams. But in order to make dreams come into reality, it takes an awful lot of determination, dedication, self-discipline, and effort. - Jesse Owens.

- Failure will never overtake me if my determination to succeed is strong enough. - Og Mandino.

- Desire is the key to motivation, but with determination and commitment to an unrelenting pursuit of your goal - a commitment to excellence - that will enable you to attain the success you seek. - Mario Andretti.

- Determination gives you the resolve to keep going in spite of the roadblocks that lay before you. - Denis Waitley.

- If you set goals and go after them with all the determination you can muster, your gifts will take you places that will amaze you. - Les Brown. 

- Crystallize your goals. Make a plan for achieving them and set yourself a deadline. Then, with supreme confidence, determination and disregard for obstacles and other people's criticisms, carry out your plan. - Paul J. Meyer

- An invincible determination can accomplish almost anything and in this lies the great distinction between great men and little men. - Thomas Fuller. 

- Not only our future economic soundness but the very soundness of our democratic institutions depends on the determination of our government to give employment to idle men. - Franklin D. Roosevelt.


Saturday, 2 November 2013



It is the start of a new month.
The 11th month of the year
and it is with great excitement
I welcome you into it. Happy new month!

A lot of people wait for December before
they start celebrating. As for you,
it is going to be different.

Your celebration begins right now. Throughout this month and the next, you will be
celebrated like never before. Those who did
not see anything good in you before today,
will come and celebrate you.

Some other people do not get to harvest
anything until December, but for you,
there is a change of course. Your harvest begins
this month and it will overflow into December in Jesus name.

I pray you will hear a sound from heaven this NOVEMBER.

Friday, 1 November 2013


The phrase, “what will be, will be” is the reason for failed relationships and marriages in our days. It is not what will be that will be but “what you make be will be.”
We believe in miracles, it is okay to believe in miracles. But most importantly you need to know that God has given you the power to work miracles.
Creation is now in your hand, so you can deliberately work a relationship to a successful destination. Nothing happens by chance, a failed relationship or marriage will not happen by chance. It is either there were things that were overlooked at the foundational stage or not properly done. Sure, a successful relationship is not an accident; it takes hard work to have a successful life, relationship or marriage.
A Lazy person cannot have a successful relationship because for a relationship to be constantly sweet, we have to please each other and pleasing people is hard work. Laziness and success never agree. The Bible laid so many references about slothfulness. A slothful hand maketh poor; so a slothful person ends up with poor relationship. Here are SOME steps to better your relationship or marriage:

1. Believe the best about your mate: The act of believe has a way of focusing your attention to what you believe in. Remember, the number one reason that brought you together with your spouse is love. Most of the time what your spouse does has its root in love not bad intention.
I had a conversation with a couple that had been married for thirty-five years and they were sharing with me their journey. At a point in their lives, the man was cheating on his wife and that kept bringing issues in their marriage. The husband said, one day he thought within him, “All the quarrels from this woman are simply out of love for me not bad intentions and repent from his unfaithfullness.”
Learn to believe in your spouse, even when they fail to keep a promise or fulfill an expectation, he/she is not a failure. The best way to bring about the best in your relationship is to always remember his/her first love towards you and not their last mistake.
Anything you focus on have the power to control you. If you say that your husband is very stingy, that is the husband you will have. “My husband likes anything on “skirt” he will keep liking every woman”. Build on hope instead of despair and trust instead of doubt.
When you love like God, you expect the best; keep aside the wrongs your husband or wife had done in the past and start expecting the best now. The best way to start is a prayer of thanksgiving to God for all the ‘Fruit of the Spirit’ in your spouse’s heart. If it is peace you want, start thanking God in advance for it. If it is joy, patience, goodness, kindness, faithfulness, humbleness, self control etc. all that you desire to see in your spouse, thank God for them. There is nothing you thank God for that can depreciate. As you do that, He will start enriching your spouse with more and more of those qualities. I told you a good relationship is hard work. It will not happen overnight but if you can keep at it, you will see the changes in your relationship/marriage. Always look for the best in your spouse and never look back until you get your desired result.

2. Commitment: For your relationship to succeed, you have to be committed. It takes commitment to succeed in any endeavor. Commitment is a dedication to a course, it is a promise made to oneself to succeed no matter the situation. Imagine you say to yourself, no matter what; this relationship will succeed. Having that mind set will make you work on your marriage until it arrives at a peaceful and enjoyable destination.
The proof of commitment is sacrifice. For whatever you do to work, you must be willing to make sacrifice. Find out what your spouse does not like in your attitude and make a conscious effort to change. Commitment is a major key that fires up love in marriage.

3. Refill Your Spouse Emotional Bank: Another way to bring out the best in your marriage or relationship is to learn to take every day as a fresh day. Have a word of affirmation for each day. It does not take much to say, you are such a wonderful and a kind man, baby you are beautiful or handsome. Do not say, what will that do? It will do a lot because the relationship or marriage came as a result of spoken word. Your words was what you use to woo or you use to accepts a relationship proposal. So words also have the power to sustain or break your relationship. Yes, you may have expressed your love yesterday but yesterday’s expression is not good enough for today’s count.
Your yesterday is only a foundation for today’s fresh expression. Be fresh and be creative every day. Look for a new word to say, I love you. Your spouse emotional bank needs refilling. If you do not recognize this, the journey of love could easily run out of gas.
This is one of the reasons cheating is the order of the day now, because many people are sleeping on the relationship. There is a proverb that says “if you eat well at home, you will not go and keep your eyes on food outside.” When you are fully loaded at home, you can afford to go out and refuse food. But if you are hungry, the temptation to accept food is very high. I know there are exceptions to this; there are people that will cheat no matter what you do, that is another topic for those classes of people. but that not normal; it the spirit of whoredom.
a lot of people are busy looking for money at the expense of important things in their lives. There are couples that had stopped affirming each other. Each day contribution of affirmation is important for the overall success of marriage. Marriage is more than a career; it needs to be handled with diligence; it is a covenant that can even determine your eternal destiny. If you marry a woman or a man that makes you angry and carry unforgiveness all your life, when you die, you may go to hell. Do something new to tell your spouse “I love you today.”
I met a lady in my son’s school that had just lost her husband, he was a lawyer, he travelled to another state for a law case and won; on his way back home he had an accident and died. The memories in her mind are the last act of love he showed her before travelling. You are not about to lose your spouse but always leave your spouse with beautiful memories to carry all through the day and not a bad one that will make them have a bad day. Saying beautiful and pleasant words to your spouse never run out of fashion, the more you practice it, the better your relationship becomes. It is like praising God, the more you praise God, the better of Him you see in your life.

4. Never Go To Bed Unreconciled: Another great secret to bring the best out of your relationship is never to go to bed unreconciled. This is the way to build the wall of your home against the enemy. You have to learn to resolve issues the same day. Have you noticed, the more you play the tape of an offence in your heart, the bigger it gets? The angrier you get, the more the issue gets magnified.
The Bible says “resolve your anger quickly” unresolved anger is the greatest threat to marital harmony and peace. Many people had lost good relationship because of anger.
Unresolved anger will bring division into your marriage; it can also hinder the Holy Spirit from bringing healing to your hurt most especially when your spouse cheats on you. Only God can actually heal your hurt but if you refuse to let go of the anger, hurts and the betrayal it caused you; the Holy Spirit cannot bring in the healings you need.
Learn to forgive; it is a commandment not an option. When your spouse offends you, set out time when both of you can honestly speak the truth in love. When you are discussing, try not to say, “You always get me angry” rather say, “I feel hurt when you do this or that” you will find out your relationship with your spouse is better when you practice this.

5. Be Grateful: It is so frustrating to keep being nice to an ungrateful spouse. Ingratitude frustrates effort and

Lifestyle and Fashion

Fashion for God, to show the Lord' beauty cos i am wonderfully made and fearfully made and my soul knows this very well. Thank u my God.

Orun oun ye(the heaven and earth are full of your glory) song.

This song is inspirational, the heaven and earth are full of God's glory and my life too reflect God's glory. Gensis 1:1-31, talks about God's creations. Enjoy this song by Sister Tope Alabi a Nigerian Atist.



Each Morning Grandpa Was Up Early Sitting At The Kitchen Table Reading his Holy Bible. His Grandson Wanted
to Be Just like Him and Tried to imitate Him in Every Way He Could.

One Day
the Grandson Asked, "Grandpa! I Try To Read The Holy Bible Just Like You But I Don't Understand it, And What I Do Understand I Forget As Soon As I Close The Book. What Good Does Reading the Holy bible do?"

The Grandfather Quietly Turned From Putting Coal in The Stove And Replied, ”Take This Coal Basket Down To The River And Bring Me Back A Basket Of Water."The Boy Did As He Was Told, But All The Water Leaked Out Before He Got Back To The House.

The Grandfather Laughed and Said, "You'll Have to Move A Little Faster Next Time," And Sent Him Back to the River with the Basket to Try Again. This Time The Boy Ran Faster, But Again The Basket Was Empty Before He Returned Home. Out of Breath, He Told His Grandfather that it was impossible To Carry Water in A Basket, And He Went to Get a Bucket instead.

The Old Man Said, "I Don't Want A Bucket of Water; I Want A Basket of Water. You're just Not Trying Hard Enough," And He went out the Door to Watch the Boy Try Again. At This Point, the Boy knew it was impossible, but He Wanted To Show His Grandfather That Even if He Ran As fast As He Could, The Water Would Leak out before He Got Back to the House. The Boy Again Dipped The Basket into River And Ran Hard, But When He Reached His Grandfather The Basket Was Again Empty. Out of Breath, He Said,” See Grandpa, it's Useless!"

"So you Think it is Useless?" The Old Man Said, "Look at the Basket." "The Boy looked At the Basket and for the first Time Realized That the Basket Was Different. It Had Been Transformed From A Dirty Old Coal Basket And Was Now Clean, inside And Out. "Son, That's What Happens When You Read. You Might Not Understand or Remember Everything, But When You Read, You Will Be Changed, inside and out". That is
the work of reading the Bible in our lives.....


Happy new month

Happy new month, this Novermber  will surely bring favour and peace to our lifes.

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