FENCER’S THEORY IN RELATIONSHIP

So many young ones have caused themselves heartbroken because they allow someone that has nothing to offer them in life to deceive them. They are involved in relationship that cannot be defined.

The word fencer is from the word fence. We use fence to encamp a building or to keep something from openness. It is also used to hide or maintain secret. Fencer means, a person that fences. When there is a deep closeness between two opposite sex, there is tendency that they fence themselves up from others to know the content of their relationship, people around you will be guessing whether you are dating or courting.

Whenever there is a thought of doubt about your relationship with an opposite sex in people’s mind, then, you are fencing yourself up from others that have right mind of going into relationship with you.
Some people call it close friendship, but every friendship must be defined. Never assume the status of your friendship with an opposite sex but be assured.

So many young ladies keep on fencing themselves with a guy because of their self-worthlessness and lack of focus and that makes it worse. Don’t put a yoke that you will not be able to remove on your neck. So many girls have been seriously abused and impregnated in the name of close friendship.
Some are engaged in oral sex and other sexual related acts. Who is deceiving who? Your future lies in the state of your mind. It is better you assure yourself whether you are in courtship or not, don’t risk sitting on the fence. Fencer theory is worth avoiding.
May the God of heaven show you the right path to follow.

-By Ojo